Our partners in Mongolia are doing some astonishing gospel work among people with addictions, helping them out of their dependencies and into a living relationship with Jesus Christ. This is a first-person account of how one woman's life has been transformed.
My name is Altantsetseg. I was a bright and lively child who loved to sing and play music.
When I was in fifth grade, I told my classmates about another classmate’s secret. Consequently, my classmates stared to call me “blabbermouth”. They jeered at me so much that I began to distance myself from them and kept to myself all the time.
Of course, I lost my friends too. They also made fun of my looks and the color of my eyes. I felt so ashamed that I dared not look at others directly.
When I finished high school, I married a guy from my home town. The initial two years were blissful, but in the third year of our marriage, my husband stared to drink and gamble.
Whatever we had – house, flock and valuables were gambled off. His winnings could not recover the losses. Whenever my husband lost the gamble, he would drink, become incandescent with rage and break all that he could break in the house.
Even though he had chased me out of the house in the middle of the night with only the clothes on my back on numerous occasions in summer and winter, I tolerated his behaviour because I thought he was just frustrated and envious of another person’s winning.
One thing that I found intolerable, though, was the way he heaped abusive words on me. We quarrelled a lot. One way I coped with all that was to indulge in sweet food and shopping if I had money, or window shopping if I had no money.
This went on for more than 20 years, and then I became fed up with my life. At a time when I thought it was better to die and when I had made plans to commit suicide, I came to know the Lord.
In fact, God found me and saved me; as well as my family. Shortly after I came to the Lord, my husband and I learned about the Celebrate Recovery programme from a friend, and we decided to attend.
At first, I thought only my husband needed to change. Soon, I realised I needed to change too. Participating in the support group was a challenge because I had difficulty expressing myself or simply to look directly at others.
Nonetheless, I acknowledged that I was co-dependent and addicted to shopping, sweet food, even to squabbling; and started to work through the 12 steps for recovery. Gradually, my husband and I saw changes in our lives. I am very thankful that God renewed our relationship and restored peace in our family.
Now, my husband is a leader in church, and both of us are planning to start a sister church in our neighborhood soon.
It has been ten years since I joined the Celebrate Recovery programme in our church. I am serving joyfully at the CR ministry, and volunteering as a para-counselor in the ministiry, which is now called Transformation TRACC (Training and Counselling Centre for Addiction and Recovery).
I want to share the joy and happiness God has given me with women who are experiencing what I went through, and tell them that there is hope. I thank God that he is using my experience for his king-dom. All glory be to God.